Develop to listen and allow others to speak

"Change our self not others
like to listen to others too 
Speak but not much".

Above are the three important mantras to develop
our communication skills. whether we are with friends, in group
or in meeting, communication represents our identity which ultimately
impacts our own individual personality. Thus,  the way we speak and
listen, builds our career and social life too. Below are the important tips
which helps to improve and develop our personality.

Be a good listener:

• Attention to the speaker is must.
• Show  your interest with good body language.
• Never interrupt the  speaker while he/ she is  speaking.
• Allow the speaker to finish his/ her talk.
• Ask few question related to the speaker topics.
• Never relate or narrate your incidence with the similar topic of speaker, unless you are asked.
• Never be a silent listener.

Be a good Speaker

• Make your matter crisp and clear.
• Make the narration of  incidence or event short not long.
• Avoid the repetition of sentences. 
• Make your topics interesting to the listener.
• Avoid speaking continuously.
• Allow listeners to express their view.
• Avoid talking about the person who is totally stranger.
• to the listener which make the talks boring.
• Talk relevant to the topic.
• Never switch on to the another topic by leaving the first topic incomplete.