Thursday, May 3, 2012

Accept the criticism





We must learn to accept criticism in positive way rather than taking in negative.

Example; In the above video clip, had she would have taken the words of small boy in negative, then she wouldn't have been able to improve her orange colour hair to an attractive black silky hair.

This lesson is to be applied not only in personal but professional life too.

Sanjay 22 year old, was happy and content with his graduation degree in BSC physics. He was completely involved in his father whole sale rice business, Sanjay was considered to be a perfect future businessman because of his excellent communication and smart thinking.

One day his closed relative arrived at Sanjay house. Relative was very proud to announce that his son similar to Sanjay age has completed his Bachelor of Engineering from a reputed college and now he is working with reputed Multi national Company with much high salary. Then pointed out Sanjay’s low qualification and achievement. Sanjay felt bad, was almost speechless as he knew that his relative was right from his side.

That whole day Sanjay mind was not in peace, Relative went and few days latter, Sanjay decided to Leave his father business and wanted to study BE to make his own identity, At the beginning, his father was quite upset with his decision but latter  accepted it.

Sanjay enrolled himself in  an entrance exam coaching class and gave all his best to click in the entrance test,  despite of people criticism and mock  he concentrated in his preparation, A year latter his hard work was paid, got admission in an reputed Engineering college as per his required field.  And then got a good job in n reputed company with good salary.

Today he is well settled and has become the example for success and hard work within his family and friend. And where his father never stop himself from chanting mantra of his son achievement wherever he could.

Moral
If Sanjay would have taken such criticism in negative way, never he would been able to achieve what he got today. If taken in negative, he would have further stopped talking to his relative, and taking in competition aspects, would have been able to expand his father business but never would have become an example for others.He did not take it in jealousy or competition way between himself and  relative son but  wisely realized the importance of own identity and achievement.

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